The point of first contact. Maybe you’re nervous. Maybe you’re sweating profusely. Maybe you stammer and can’t articulate your thoughts clearly and are stumbling over your words. You think that you’re blowing it, but she finds it endearing. Your heart is beating and rushing at a million miles an hour and you find yourself hanging on their every word.
The rush and wave of emotions that comes over you is refreshing like waves breaking on the shoreline. At the same time it’s a flood of emotions that moves as swift as flood waters that have overflowed the river banks. Those waters cannot be contained.
She is constantly in your thoughts when they aren’t present. You send out texts throughout the day to let them know that you’re thinking about them while you do your boring day job that you wish someone else would do so you could be with them.
Maybe you rarely use your phone to actually call people, but for him you make an exception because you want to hear the sound of his voice because it makes you feel like he’s near to you.
Maybe you despise cooking for yourself and ‘dinner’ consists of a bowl of cereal. It used to be the breakfast, lunch, and dinner of your slacker-self during your college years and you’ve taken to throwing-it-back to your college years by eating cereal because you don’t have the energy or will power to actually prepare a decent meal for yourself. But for her, you’re willing to invite her over so you can cook for her. Never mind that you’re scrambling and panicking to learn a simple enough recipe that you won’t screw up, but something that will still be appetizing enough to show that you’re sophisticated and to hide the fact that maybe your diet and eating habits are atrocious.
Perhaps you really hate watching television. You pride yourself on not even having a TV and you save lots of money on not having cable, a DVD player, or the actual TV. But she really wants to watch the Bachelor with you. So you go over to her place and you endure the agony of watching all those women throwing themselves at one guy. She’s in tears and you are too, but for very different reasons. You can’t believe you just sat through the Bachelor and wasted precious hours of your life that you will never get back, but you were with her and that’s all that mattered to you. You were close to her and who doesn’t like cuddling?
New relationships are exciting and the way they progress and move along is part of the thrill of the unknown. Making new discoveries about your new significant other is a rush. The answer to a question could be the difference between agreeing on favorite foods or leading to a discussion as to why Batman is just a rich casanova with gadgets and money and why he isn’t really a true superhero because he doesn’t have special powers.
The little things they do, you begin to find endearing. Normal people who are not growing more in love with each other would find those same things to be annoying or gross. But not so with you, their annoying laugh is not annoying to you at all.
But hey, who cares what others think? You’re in love and that’s all that matters. Getting lost in their eyes is more like being found and making a great discovery that would rival Columbus’ discovery of the ‘New World’.
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